Sunday, June 7, 2009

late May - early June 2009

Currently I'm relaxing at home listening to some tunes before the game starts. While I won't be paying full attention to the game, I definitely will be watching it.

I'm not sure where to begin, or what to talk about first, so here goes!

I don't think I've shared with the world (well, the few of you who actually read this) that I am attempting to date. Attempting being the key word there! You see, I haven't "dated" in about 10 years... I dated my ex for about 5 years off an on, went through a period of "nobody can love me", then the period of I hate my job and my life, then I moved to Kansas City and dating was the last thing on my mind. I'm finally trying to put myself first and find my prince charming... or at least meet some more friends! I put myself on this website (POF) and after finishing this blog will be removing myself. It's a free site, that should have been the first sign. Started talking to Q, we were going to meet, he never showed and stopped all communication. Started talking to W, we actually met. I really liked him, felt like we had a lot in common and there was something there... until he pulled the same crap. He stopped responding to calls, texts, etc. About a month or so later he told me he had decided to go this way b/c he has a g/f and every time in the past he had tried to end things she supposedly hurt herself physically. He said he had strong feelings for me and wanted to be with me but didn't want the girl to hurt herself. We decided just to be friends and were going to hang out... he stood me up and yet again has stopped all communication. Moving on... started talking to J...another guy I decided after talking to that I wanted to meet. Well, he avoided meeting for dinner at all costs, and after a few comments I took it that he couldn't afford to really "date" a girl. I told him I didn't expect to go to a 5-star restaurant, but to start dating somebody I do expect dinner... we haven't really talked since. An occasional hi, but thats it. Then there's C... I had talked to him a few months ago, he was supposed to come out to LS to meet me, never showed up. Supposedly he fell asleep. We didn't talk for a good few months then out of the blue he gets ahold of me. We started talking... I am intrigued by him. I wish I could pinpoint what it is about him, but haven't been able to do that yet. He was going to come to LS last Friday, last Saturday, Sunday, Wednesday and Thursday night... one excuse after another I am "dumping" him. We were going to meet last Monday afternoon, I ran upstairs to shower and ended up falling asleep in bed , during that time he called 16 times, left 3 voices mails and sent about 5 texts. Seriously? Peace yo! Soooo... again the website is gone, well more like my profile is gone. It is apparently not my time to have somebody in my life, at least somebody that I've met online.


I have been giving myself pedicures... and while I'm not a professional, I think they look pretty good for the 3 times I've done it. I was doing the typical french manicure, I switched it up this time and went with a pink tip french manicure. You may not want to enlarge! ha


The weekend of May 29th was Rockfest... and my birthday! My golden birthday was the 29th! One of my BFF, Patti, came down with her b/f. They got lost Friday night trying to get here, and when I went to find her I got turned around, LOL. We were up until about 4 a.m. Saturday morning, I had to turn around and get up for a 9 a.m. appointment. I was tired already and the day had just started! I had planned on getting to Liberty Memorial for Rockfest around 12:30 or 1:00, we got there around 1:45. By the time we hiked from my friends house to Liberty Memorial and around Liberty, I was beyond hot and felt like crap. I thought I was going to have to leave them there. But, after a bottle of water, a bottle of caffeine and sitting under a shade tree, I was good. It was an incredible time (minus the contact high from all the people doing drugs) and can't wait for next year already! For those of you not familiar with Rockfest... here's just a little info... it's held at Liberty Memorial in KC, for the past two years it's been 50,000 people shoved into the park, 15 bands, 2 stages, all food and drinks are $5 or less and much much more. And of course, the pictures start from the end ... I don't care though :)

Right before we left... speaking of leaving, as we were working our way through the crowd trying to leave, I had to stop and almost threw up. The closer we got to the stage the worse the smell of drugs got. UGH!


Rock on sista!


You got beads for showing your boobs.

One of the awesome girls we sat next to, forgot her name but she was awesome.
A small section of the trash near us. Everywhere you went was trash... Johnny always says the place looks better the day after when they bring the cleaning crew in then when they started...


I look like complete crap, but didn't care. Patti made a tourbon for me when we were walking to keep the heat off my head, which didn't do jack for my hair... but again, I didn't care.

Awwwwe, besties!







Check out the hairy man in the right corner... ewwww!

Another hairy man (in the white tank)... and the lady in the black tank... if you're my "friend" on facebook, this is who I was talking about. She was rockin' it out, but spilled her beer with every shake of her booty. Alcohol abuser!

MOOSE!
One of the 10 commandments of Rockfest.


And another.
And this we almost had to do.
Druggies!



LOL... I was totally trying to be non-chalant about taking this hottie's picture but got busted! He was such a ball of energy and such a good 'neighbor'!



Patti & Donnie



Put 'em away!

Wow

People walking to Rockfest

Before we left

Our shadows in my car.

Dad has surgery next Friday... 3 hernia's. Poor guy. I'm debating going back for the weekend, but don't think I'm going to be able to as I'm covering for somebody that day.
I went to the market yesterday, gosh I love going! I should have went earlier to avoid some of the craziness, but got 2 of 3 things I went for. I got some gorgeous gerber daisies! Because of the way blogger is un-doing all of my edits, I will post the pics in a separate entry...
Lastly, I'm always stealing recipies off of others blogs... I wanted to share this - pretty simple but very good!
Chicken breasts
Lawry's Baja Chipotle Marinade
Jalepeno bread
Jalepeno cheese
Spread some marinade on the bottom of the dish you're cooking the chicken in.
Lay your chicken breasts in the dish.
Cover the tops of the chicken breasts with marinade.
Marinade for an hour.
Bake for 40-45 minutes @ 400.
Put chicken on slice of jalepeno bread with a slice of jalepeno cheese and serve.
Delish!
Pictures of the daisies to follow...

1 comments:

The Naths said...

I suggest e-harmony. =) That's how I met Lance. Also the guy I dated right before Lance through e-harmony was really nice also. We just ended things because there wasn't a spark for whatever reason. You do have to pay, but I think it is the best one out there. You answer A LOT of questions, but is so worth the time, since you get people who are compatible with you instead of having to waste time figuring out if he's a druggy or a loser or whatever. Also, does your church have a singles group? That may be another way. Most of all, the best advice I could give anyone (not that you were asking or anything. LOL!) is to make sure you have truly forgiven and and let go of past hurts. For whatever reason, and I'm not sure why, but my doc says that people who don't do this have a tendency to attract the same creeps over and over again. Forgiveness breaks the cycle.